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How attachment-based psychotherapy can help build self-esteem
Low self-esteem can feel like a constant hum in the background of your life, always there, always pulling you back. Maybe it’s that inner voice telling you you’re not good enough, or the tendency to compare yourself to everyone else and always come up short. Or maybe you just struggle to feel loveable, capable, or worthy, no matter what you achieve.
If that sounds familiar, you’re definitely not alone. And there’s good news: low self-esteem isn’t a life sentence.

Gavin McKee
Aug 145 min read


Understanding defence mechanisms in preoccupied attachment
Understanding defence mechanisms in preoccupied attachment

Gavin McKee
Aug 144 min read


How personal boundaries differ across attachment styles
This is a copy of an article I posted on Counselling Directory. Click here for original article . Ever feel like you're either too open...

Gavin McKee
Mar 244 min read


Earned security: It's never too late to heal
‘Earned security’ is a concept that offers hope and healing to those who have suffered childhood attachment trauma.

Gavin McKee
Dec 18, 20244 min read


Recovering from Childhood Trauma: A Journey of Healing and Transformation
Recovering from Childhood Trauma: Insights into how different therapeutic approaches can help, and what to expect during recovery.

Gavin McKee
Oct 1, 20245 min read


Can talk therapy help with recovering from childhood trauma?
Holistic approaches that include somatic, emotional, and cognitive processing and integration may be best for trauma therapy.

Gavin McKee
Aug 15, 20244 min read


How to find your authentic self
Why being authentic is important but also hard to do. How you know when you're being authentic and tips for achieving authenticity.

Gavin McKee
Jun 13, 20246 min read
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